I learn "mirroring" from Adam Khoo's book. Find someone that you find to be a good mentor to be your role model. Copying his style of outfit, the way he speaks, and more importantly his mindset.
I have few great mentor in life. From teachers such as Miss Bee Lee, Mr Teng, Miss Menon, Miss Rozi, Mr Simon . From ex-gf who teaches a lot of values and reality of life to me which toughens up my mindset as well as making myself more mature in few months. From parents with great loving, passion in what they are doing, and shaping myself. From leaders such as Adrian and MK who consistently coach me even during my hard times. From staffs such as May and Jenny that assists in my work when im still new to work. From friends such as Hoong Kin, Jeffrey, Wei Hong, and others who are business-minded and investor savvy persons ( entrepreneur mindset) . From FOREX traders friends such as JZ, and Vincent. From Amoeba friends such as Elaine and William who teaches me leadership, public speaking, NLP and others. From best friends such as Kenneth, Martin, Ching Yee , Yee Seng, Lip Yong, whom i share great laughter with them.
I realise how important to mix with the right type of friends in life. All in a while it is necessary to mix with some crazie friends to release stress, n get a feel of back to uni life. But i have to realise that in order to develop the right attitude and mindset, i have to consistently surrounded by positive minded entrepreneur who is a thinker n implementer. Spend 3 nights meeting with entrepreneurs to update myself of new business strategy and industry trend.
I like what Dr Wong said, "networking" .. But it is more important to find the right people to speak to for a productive time . i once talk to a self made millionaire insurance salesperson, who always find someone older and wiser to speak to in order to learn at tremendous speed.
Having to see so many people in KL driving nice cars. It is not easy as we assume. It is the effort that put in thats counts. Adam Khoo says 10000hours spent to be expert in a certain areas. Once has to climb up the ladder of knowledge slowly, faced with obstacles, find ways to overcome, in order to grow to what they are today.
Datuk Lawrence sleeps less than 5 hours a day, Mr Goh says sleep more than 5 hours a day is a sin ( same goes to Miss Geetha n Miss Menon ), Dr Wong sleeps from 2- 7 am but yet they all still remain so ENERGETIC, but i sleep 8 hours a day but still so tired. i think it is the willing power to remain alert defeats the sleepiness and the habit of it. Right supplements and diet will improve it with some exercises.
How to buy time ? Dr WONG's theory- to double the time, work when other people looking at clock to go back, HK artist - gym at 12am when others are sleeping, dad who does sales till 10pm last time, MK who does insurance planning till 12am, Dr Wong who works during holiday and weekends, Elaine who works till 2 /3 am to design the ALC schedule for us, brother who works OT and sleep at irregular hours as a doctor. People works 8 hours - Singaporean works 12 hours ( which makes them 2nd in the world n lot of Millionairesss )
Love can be quantified by time. Spend quality time with family and loved ones.
The art of praying to Buddha- bring him luck with lot of people assisting him at the right time. It is his high belief level and strong visualisation that brings him to where he is today. Critical THINKING, of disagree if it isnt right, and sharing his knowledge reinforce his level of understanding.
He has luck to get a good mentor in his life - BLUE OCEAN . Dr Bong who teaches him lot of things . Doing something people thinks it's impossible. Tap the untapped market. First impression that matters ( facial )
Everyday time is spent on reading 1-10 pages increase the knowledge level - the way someone communicates show how much ones know about an issue. William who speaks so well in public speaking is due to his vast reading, applying and sharing his knowledge to others. When it is shared, he gets the result twofold.
Why he reach the top at 38years old and headhunter by so many big corp ? he is working at ad hoc basis - project based ( more challenging - consistently thinking ) being backstabbed by others but still remain strong. Working with others not for the fixed salary ( OBLIGATION ) but to actually add value to others ( 1 and half year to bring 40% increase in sales ) as well as increase knowledge of particular new industry ( oil palm - vast usage of its waste material - BIG market ) ..
Consistently MOVE FORWARD , but focusing NOT on people but on the ISSUES . even after scolding someone - still can talk because not attacking the individual but his wrongdoing issues. Dont care how peoples see or talk about us, as at the end of the day, it is our "RESPONSE" that leads to the "OUTCOME" , but not the "EVENT" that matters ( Adam Khoo's theory )
Never give justification, do not occupy space is my dad's theory which is perfectly true. May can work very well, but due to her seniority, justification given to protect her own interest may limit where she can fly.
One has to start from basic, slowly learn the subject matter and implement what is learn in the business. I BELIEVE IN MYSELF that right attitude, mindset, action, response, love, time management, people, knowledge, will lead to BEST RESULTS one day .
